How To Control Your Bad Temper In The Workplace?

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There will always be some unpleasant things that make people angry. Many people in the workplace often find it difficult to control their bad temper.

But this kind of behavior is very harmful to the interpersonal relationship of the workplace. If you really want to fight or fight, you will feel embarrassed if your colleagues do not see you in the first place.

So, how should we control ourselves in the workplace?

What about it?

When your emotions are about to fluctuate dramatically and feel that you are going to be unable to control your emotions, take a deep breath and make your mood a little more stable.

At the same time, I said to myself, "I am not angry. There is nothing to be angry about in this matter."

Through this psychological suggestion to control their emotions.

In addition, workplace people can try to control their emotions through mild pain.

When you wear a rubber band on your wrist, feel like you can't control your bad temper, gently pull the rubber band, remind yourself with this slight pain, and over time, it will become a way to control your temper.

Allow yourself to steal laziness at some point.

Rest and relaxation are human nature.

So when you feel that your job is very complicated, you might as well take a break and take a deep breath.

Let yourself get a whole body relaxation.

When you encounter problems and want to quarrel with others, you may as well drop your stuff and leave yourself temporarily away from the battlefield, go to the rooftops or corridors of office buildings, look at the green plants, and relax your mood.

Let time stop for a moment, stop the bad temper that can not be controlled, and straighten out your mood, until the mood is mild, then go back to deal with those difficult problems.

When it comes to these unhappy things, it is better to write them out.

Do you feel depressed after a day's work? Write down a lot of words in your diary.

"What happened today?" "why am I not happy?" "is there anything else to be happy about?"

Of course, in addition to the diary, people in the workplace can also look for the real tree hole, find their good friends and small partners, and talk about things that are unpleasant and can not be said in the office.

In the process of chatting with small partners, the bad temper disappeared.