Adult Children Should Be "Grown Up" &Nbsp; Children Should Be Allowed To Have The Right Childlike Innocence.

"June 1 children's Day" is just around the corner. Miss Liu has started a fire for her daughter's holiday gift. Her daughter told her earlier that she wanted to have a set of children's cosmetics, and the reason was very simple: children around her!

Let Ms. Liu more surprised that children's suspenders skirt, pants, tube boots, high-heeled shoes and other very sexy children's clothes are also many, children's products, clothing adult to let Ms. Liu some worry.

　　 The more ambiguous children's stationery, the more hot they sell.

On the weekend of May 30th, reporters visited several shopping malls and markets in Shenyang City. In the five love market, in the crowded stationery area, reporters saw a wide variety of stationery supplies, and many stationery models and patterns were very adult. A teenage girl was picking stationery with her mother. She chose a pen. At the end of the pen, she was a sexy girl with hot curly hair. Her chest and her buttocks were very prominent, and she wore only bra and underwear. The reporter saw that the little girl's pencil bag design was also very special. A cartoon couple were kissing, and there was a note on it: "love your love". The girl's mother told reporters: "now children's supplies are so many, but these things, the children think the new trend, personality." The booth owner said, "you want to look for the children's stationery that is simple in color and simple in design. It's hard to do that. Now things like that are not market, the more strange and strange, the more sexy, violent and ambiguous patterns of stationery are."

Later, the reporter also saw the beautifully packaged children's cosmetic box, containing rouge, eye shadow, lipstick, eye shadow bar, rouge sweep... It is also equipped with an instruction manual, which is more complete than the cosmetics of adults. "Lipstick is applied evenly from the middle of the lower lip to the sides of the lips, and then the lip brush is used to dip a little lipstick to describe the lip shape carefully. Lightly sip your lips, let the lipstick settle on the upper lip, then use the tissue to absorb the excess lipstick. "Can this child be used?" the reporter asked a mother who was choosing cosmetics. "Of course, my daughter likes it. She used to rush to use mine, and then I began to buy it for her." The reporter saw that the daughter beside her was very fashionable, and the makeup was very fashionable. The mother bought two sets of children's cosmetics at one time, and said the other one would give a friend's family a "children's Day" gift.

Reporters found that this kind of children's cosmetics online sales are also very popular, in a small shop sales records, only "61 children's Day" sold 65 sets a few days ago.

　　 Suspender high-heeled shoes ten year old sexy

There is such an enquiry record in Baidu post bar. "Where there are children selling high-heeled shoes, I want to buy a pair for my daughter, preferably in the same style and also in adults. I want to wear the same color and style of high-heeled shoes with my daughter." Some netizens replied, "there are customized products on Taobao, and now the children's shoes are made very well."

Reporters have learned that many parents are keen to dress their daughters in fashion and fashion. Children wearing sexy sling skirts, gowns and high-heeled shoes are nothing new. Reporters came to the South Tower shoe city to turn around, buy a pair of children's high-heeled shoes is not really difficult, some children's heel heels up to four or five cm, like shoes two or three cm children's shoes are very common, what styles have. The stall owner told reporters: "the children are very fashionable now. They are very personality. Children's high-heeled shoes and boots are always selling well, especially boots."

The reporter came to a shopping mall in Taiyuan street. In a children's brand clothing store, he saw that the children's vests here had leopard patterns and suspenders. Some of them were very sexy and exposed, and there was no difference between them. According to the shopkeeper, the mature style of clothing has a strong contrast with the age of the children. Many parents like this contrast, buying such clothes for their children.

　　 Mosaic model adults look foolish.

Mr. Zhao, a toy shop in a shopping mall in Zhongjie street, found it difficult. He wanted to buy a set of educational toys for his four year old son. He could pick them out and found that many toys were too complicated, not to mention four year old children, even adults could be baffled.

Mr. Zhao's son looked at a model of car splicing, that is, using more than 500 small parts to be assembled into a car model. The toy is marked for children over four years old, but Mr. Zhao opens the toy and looks at the complicated assembly drawings and more than 500 parts. He can't spell it, let alone a child.

Reporters visited the market to find that children's toys are becoming more and more complicated. Blocks, jigsaw puzzles and placement models are very difficult, but they are all suitable for young children's toys.

Not only is the toy more and more complex and difficult, but a parent complaining to reporters is that children's entrance exams are becoming more and more difficult. Now, it is the month of kindergarten enrollment. A few days ago, Ms. Li's daughter went to the entrance examination for the small Hajin kindergarten. One of the questions was "there are a row of ducks, one of which is eighth from the left side, and the sixteenth from the right side. How many ducks are there?" Ms. Li said that she had been puzzled for a long time and that her daughter was only 4 years old. It is reported that many kindergarten enrolment examinations have been held, and the examination questions are becoming more and more difficult. Some have even tested Olympiad questions.

　 [expert opinion]

Children are adults.

Executive director and Deputy Secretary General of Shenyang Psychological Association

Today's children are "adult" by our adults.

At first, children did not know how to dress up, show off and compete with each other. They did not know what sex and fashion were. It was adults' social and psychological influence that imperceptibly affected them.

Parents constantly buy high-end toys for their children, dress up their children as princesses and fashion fads, and send their children to famous kindergartens by cutting their heads. In fact, adults are largely satisfied with their vanity and heart. Such an approach only encourages children to become precocious. Look at what is all around the children. In children's books of the Lord of the rings and Harry Porter, adult vocabulary, words, tone, even adult attention, topics, and adult thinking patterns are everywhere, adult children's clothing and adult children's education. In such an atmosphere, the child is involuntarily inclined to "adult". Children's early maturity is the imitation and learning of adults' thinking and behavior. Children's growth process should be developed step by step. Each stage should have the culture and happiness at that stage. The premature disappearance of children will be harmful to children. Children should be kept as children as they should be.