Only When People Reach Middle Age Can They Know How Hard It Is To Be An Only Child.

First,

My father was an employee of Xinhua bookstore when he was young, because his uncle had been implicated as a rightist in the countryside, and my old man was a knowledge-based young man. I didn't expect to respond to the call of the old man and put it underground.

I don't know who shot it. The fewer people, the more resources per capita, the higher the standard of living. You see, the United States, Canada and Australia, sparsely populated and rich in oil, I wonder that when I was born, the population of China was only nine hundred million. What a goddamn poor person. The production team of my mother's family had half a tangerine cake and five or six red dates every year during the new year.

The orange cake can only be sent to half a household, so cut the kitchen knife and cut it in half. This is a technical job, not evenly cut, and two families fighting.

The local people surnamed Mao, and once someone cut it badly. The cake cutter was Fury: "I don't think Laozi cut it well. You call Chairman Mao the old man to cut it."

In fact, the native soil is also fertile, what grows and what the water is sweet, underground can also dig out a lot of coal, at that time there were not many people, but such good equipment only had one result: poor.

1/3 of the rations in one year are sweet potatoes. The production team has four hundred jin of millet per person per year, and it has not threshing and wet.

We must pick up the power station to thresh and thresh. The threshing machine of the hydropower station is good and bad. When it stops, it will take a long time to hit dozens of Jin of millet.

Oh, that poor.

When I was four years old, I remember when my parents and aunt took me to the street, I saw a glass jar full of red fruits in a shop. I didn't know what it was, but I knew it was delicious, so I could not afford to eat it. I could not afford to ignore it. Fortunately, my uncle was a national cadre. He bought one, and I bit it down. It was sweet and fresh. I looked up at the Chairman Mao on the wall of the county cinema. He looked at me with a smile on his face. I felt so happy.

That day, I learned the scientific name of the apple: apple.

Before I was six years old, I lived in such an environment without any hope.

So the mother talked about it: she gave birth to me.

We will suffer even more.

A few years ago, a reporter said that the poorer he was, the better attitude he had to make moral judgments. I really wanted to tear his lips. How did I spray you?

The collapse of the gang of four, a spring thunder, the parents returned to the city, the father arranged in the teacher's further education school, the mother arranges in the County hardware to turn the electrical and chemical company, the life immediately two days, the condition is good, the Niang Niang wants to have the second child, however, the national family planning policy is hardened: only one child can be born, otherwise, will return to the countryside to cultivate the land.

Two.

At that time, the standard of living in urban and rural areas was very different. Poor parents were very worried about their hard life. So their mother tied up and got the only child card. I was delighted to be my only child.

In the era of planned economy, especially the only child born in the early days of reform and opening up, it is indeed very happy, which I can not deny.

At that time, the hardware and electrification seemed to be the most successful company in the world. The president of the county court came to ask for Grandpa's grandmother to buy a Phoenix Bicycle. Even the manager of the hardware company couldn't see it.

Every summer, the company will give employees a lot of heatstroke fruit, especially watermelons, which will be stacked every summer in my bed.

I am the only child. No one is contending with me. I want to eat whatever I want to eat.

Uncle Peng has three children next door. In order to fight for the best watermelon, the two boys of the eldest brother are beaten black and blue, beating the watermelon everywhere.

The elder sister is the younger sister, cannot rob, sits on the ground gently to cry, two elder brothers also do not know that loves her.

Perhaps the watermelon ate less, and the younger sister later became a beautiful flower. She entered the top ten in the county contest, and later married to a big family in Taipei.

The only child in the city means that there is no so-called rationing, and the benefits that parents bring back to their children are all yours.

I grew up in the envy of my peers. I have a nickname from the red child class (kindergarten) to high school. The meaning of "only child" is almost the same as that of today.

As we all know, the enjoyment of early years is to pay the bill later. Life has always been balanced. If you enjoy the happiness of the only child, you will have to bear the due responsibility afterwards.

Three.

The only child away from their parents' work is actually quite risky, and I made this risk. I never knew that I would abandon my parents and throw my parents in my hometown. If I went back to Guangzhou to start afresh, would it be right if I was too selfish to think about my future?

In 2005, the father found out a serious illness. It was already advanced and had to be operated on.

According to the principle of proximity care, it is best to receive a knife from Guangzhou to see a doctor, and work side by side with the father, two.

However, according to the principle of economy, father's public health care is only effective in Hunan. For a low-income person like ours, this factor is 100% considered.

Life and death events must not be the first to save money, but they should not cost more money.

The result of this trade-off is: I asked for leave to go to Hunan, and moved my father to Changsha to operate in the hospital.

Although Changsha is a city in the hometown of Hunan, in fact, this is just a wide range of concepts. From space distance, it is not home at all. The county of Shuangfeng is more than 200 kilometers away from Changsha, where the food and clothing are more than 600 kilometers away from Changsha. Changsha is a foreign country.

When I was in a strange land, my heart was in such a state of fear.

Never encountered such a situation, at that time there was a bit of an old mindset, buying a house, and thinking about getting some decorating charge from the old man's home, but dad was careless, old, sick, sick, his body eroded his body, black and thin, withered and yellow, and haggard, thinking that he and his mother threw a round watermelon all over me, and let me enjoy it alone. Now, the watermelon that has been eaten has been pformed into responsibility, and sweet turned into bitterness and hardship.

Panic call a county hospital ambulance, more than 600 yuan, to Changsha, afraid to talk to two elderly people, afraid they love my money, I was still in the room, said the acquaintance care, spent only three hundred yuan, said the elderly happy, said the acquaintance is really good.

Four.

To Changsha, I sent my father to a specialized hospital. It was in late autumn, when the leaves were falling, and the old man was in hospital. I rented with the old woman and my wife the rent of ten yuan per night. It was really unclear how many people in Hunan were so beautiful. The rooms outside the hospital for the families of the patients were everywhere, and the lake outside the house was full of foam trash.

Originally, his wife was at work, a school in Baiyun District, the headmaster called, urging her to go back to work, and the wife said that the family member was going to have an operation. The headmaster said that the family member was not a direct family member.

How can my house be easily detained for money, so my wife bought a station ticket for second days to return to Guangzhou.

This headmaster is also a native of Hunan. I can't understand how to learn music. After I came to Guangzhou, I like most of the people I couldn't get through, basically Hunan people, especially Hunan women.

Before I checked my body in Guangzhou, my father was in a state of mind. I had no idea that I was scolded by a Hunan Hengyang woman leader in my office. I was very tired when I was in the office of a few people.

Later, I went to see a specialist with my father and met with a meeting. I sent my message to the police for a leave. The leader of the woman maliciously divided a meeting into two or more fields, and only promised me a leave in the first half. Is this individual Hunan woman still in Guangzhou?

Unfortunately, the great leader at that time was also a woman, a Guangzhou person, but he was very kind. He said that I was going to return to filial piety. It is natural and reasonable to go back. Don't worry about the work here. My tears don't flow in my eyes, but I feel in my heart and sigh back to Hunan.

If it hadn't been for her protection, I reckon that the workplace would not be persecuted and killed by the villagers.

Let's go back to Dad. My wife is back in Guangzhou. I'm really a little scared. No, not a little panic, but a very panic.

I ran to the doctor and asked Dad about his illness. Every time I heard him, I was in a panic. There was no optimistic news, but I had to smile to my father. "No problem," the doctor said.

Panic!

He had to go to the market, buy rice and buy vegetables, and the mother was old. She was afraid that her old man would be lost in Changsha. When she was young, she ran around with Daddy. Now she is old and can only run around with me, but I had no idea at all.

Panic!

Fortunately, at that time, there was a small student in the hospital who was able to get a knife and had a meal.

The operation of the father was smooth. Although he had a pain killing stick, it was still very painful in the evening. He could not sleep well.

Old woman loves me, wants me to go to bed early, daddy is humming, where dare to sleep.

It was not until the middle of the night that she went to sleep on the balcony, but the old woman did not catch her eyes. The cool breeze on the Mount Yuelu in the distance was blowing through the fence of the anti-theft net. In the cool dream, a concept suddenly appeared in my mind: my sister-in-law.

It's nice to have a sibling. You can take turns to filial piety. Everyone feels asleep. Father's bedside is not short of care.

After a long delay in Hunan, it is urgent to go back to work. Although the leaders are good and the colleagues are good, the mortgage is not allowed to go any more.

No brother, thanks to a cousin who works in Changsha.

Cousin is also brother, at this time, I am glad that the old woman is not the only child, but also the siblings, and nephew, and I have cousin.

My cousin promised to help the old man to discharge the hospital procedure and send his father and mother to the station. I left Changsha with gratitude and gratitude.

On the way to Changsha Railway Station, I suddenly shed tears. It was a burst of tears. I cried all the time to the train, and the train carried my tears all the way to Guangzhou.

Think of his father's illness, the doctor's hair story, most worried about relapse, remember the old lady's hard work, I left Hunan in the end, right?

If a siblings are around, even if I want to comfort him or her, it will be better. Comforting brothers and sisters is actually comforting themselves.

Five.

In 2007, his father's illness relapsed again, when he was in Guangzhou with my mother to bring me a child. He was too busy sleeping with his grandson because he was afraid that the air conditioner would cause a child to catch cold. Anyway, he was alert to sleep, so that he could fan fans for his grandson.

At this time, his disease recurred, pain, urethral obstruction, into a military hospital.

All day long, doctors did not care. The air conditioning in that hospital was very large and chilly, which made the father more pain.

I was anxious to find an acquaintance to see if I could be more positive to my father and I could not find it. My mother was very anxious: "your father is in pain, you can do something about it."

I am worried, too. What can I do? I can't find an acquaintance in the sky. The reaction of my father is that even a general examination is very mean.

I had no choice. I had to shout in anger in the hallway of the hospital: "what are your leaders, your attending doctors, all dead? Give them to me."

The roaring sound frightened the building, and the attending doctor was very angry. When I looked at him with anger, I threw myself away, staring at him and holding his fist, and at last he was soft hearted and offered to give it to himself.