"Do Everything Possible To Persuade People To Drink"

The hospitality of Chinese people is very effective in banquet. People's emotional exchanges are often sublimated when they toast. Chinese people often want to drink more wine when they propose a toast, so as to show that they have done their host's friendship. The more guests drink, the happier the host will be, indicating that the guests can think of themselves. If the guests do not drink, the host will feel and lose face. It has been concluded that there are several ways of persuading people to drink: "Wen Jing", "Wu Jing" and "Yu Jing". These practices have the side of their simple folklore and have some negative effects.

"Wen Jing" is a manifestation of traditional drinking, which means courteous and courteous persuading guests to drink. When the banquet begins, the host often begins to make a toast with a few words. At this time, the guest and the host must stand up. The master first gulp the wine in the glass, and he will empty the glass mouth down, indicating that he has finished drinking to show his respect for the guests. Guests usually have to finish. During the dinner, the host often went to each table to propose a toast.

"Return": This is a toast from the guest to the host.

"Mutual respect": This is the guest and Guest A toast, in order to make the other person drink more, the toast will find out the reasons why he must drink. If the toast can not find out the reason for refutation, he must drink. While seeking evidence from both sides, the emotional exchange between people and people is sublimated.

"Drinking instead of drinking": that is to say, without losing grace, it will not displease guests and avoid toasting. mode 。 I will not drink or drink too much, but the host or guest must be respectfully respected. The drinkers usually have a special relationship with him. At the wedding ceremony, the man and woman's best man and bridesmaid are always the first choice to drink, so the amount of alcohol must be large.

In order to persuade the wine, there are many interesting remarks on the banquet, such as "feeling deep, a stuffy, affectionate, enough drink", "shallow feelings, licking."

"Penalty:" this is Chinese. Toast A unique way. The reason for "penalty" is also varied. The most common possibility is the "three cups of wine" for the latecomers. Sometimes it is also a joke.

In addition, there is an impassable rule of drinking among ethnic groups. When the Tibetan people are hospitable, when highland barley wine is used to entertain guests, fill the wine glass with the wine in front of the guests. At that time, the guests should take the cup with both hands, then take the cup in one hand, the middle finger and thumb in the middle of the other hand into the cup, and dip it lightly into the cup. It means to worship the God, then take second, third, respectfully and respectfully. This traditional habit is to remind people that the origin of highland barley wine is inseparable from the generous gifts of heaven, earth and Buddha. When drinking, the custom of the Tibetan people is to drink one mouthful first, the master immediately pour wine and fill the cup, drink second more, fill it up again, then drink third mouthful, then fill it up. In the future, we must drink up the full glass of wine. In this way, the host feels that the guests can see him, and the more the guests drink, the happier the host will be. It shows that the owner is very good at fermented glutinous rice. When the Tibetan people propose a toast, they use large or large bowls for the male guests, while the female guests use small cups or small bowls.

The Zhuang people respect the guests' cup of wine instead of the cup. Instead, they use a white porcelain spoon for two people to scoop out a spoon from the wine bowl and drink each other. The master will sing a toast song: "tin pot wine is white, even when wine comes to you." Tin pot wine white porcelain cup, do not push before the wine arrives, although the wine is not good wine, you are a half cup.

The northwest Yugur hospitality for guests is a double cup. No matter how many guests, the host only takes out two glasses, and the host at the scene turns to the guests for a double cup.