On How Women Become Excellent Talents

Men face Career women Often, she is at a loss, because the woman she meets is both a colleague and a woman. In this case, you try to eliminate their psychology, try to find a common ground, resonate, and make it easier to get along. If we want to achieve this goal, we must know the preferences of the person before we can prescribe the right medicine. If you listen to music, then you have a common topic. You can also talk about things outside public affairs naturally. In addition, men and women are very concerned about their families and children, so greeting their children will slowly eliminate his hostility and vigilance against you.

seek Man The view is also a kind of admiration. Because this means that you value his opinions and experience and make him feel the importance of his existence. But when you are asking for advice, do not let him feel that you are not big enough to ask questions, which makes him feel that you have no judgement and no choice at all.

In the company, it is very unsuitable for men to discuss purely private problems, such as family, husbands, boyfriends and so on unless you have a very good personal relationship with him.

Of course, if you want to buy a car, invest in a stock or buy a house, and know that he has research in this area, you can ask him for advice in a relaxed situation (such as lunch and after work), which will make him feel that you have a good eye and are friendly to you, and will automatically remind you later.

For purely public matters, they may be put forward at any time, and there is no need to be embarrassed.

As an excellent female employee, if you want to establish a good working relationship with your partner, you need to be good at observing other people's emotions and adopting different ways of doing things. If your boss is in a good mood in the morning. Then you must take the time to discuss with him or ask for the escalation request; if you know he is very busy today or just after the meeting, he is very tired. You must look at the colors, and do not disturb him.

Office is the place where you can control yourself. Decorating your office not only represents your position and identity, but also reflects your personal style and temperament. You can rearrange your room properly or spend money on decorations, so that not only can you create an ideal working environment, but you can also increase your popularity.

For example, put one or two pots of plants, but not to make the room too fancy, just like a woman's boudoir.

Do not put up posters because they look like college dormitories. If you want to hang a picture, you should choose elegant prints or oil paintings instead of landscape paintings. At the same time, try to minimize the photos of family members in the rooms or shelves.

For example, you need some important material to complete a decision, and the colleagues who have these materials intentionally or unconsciously forget important parts of you, so that your plan is difficult to complete or make wrong decisions. Or a meeting scheduled to be held the day after tomorrow, so as to prevent your colleagues from knowing you can't finish the plan, but suddenly and quietly. Boss Discuss ahead of schedule to meet tomorrow, so that your work can not be completed before the meeting, giving your boss the impression that you are lazy and incompetent.

It's easy for women to cry for what they want. But in a working environment, this feminine emotional expression is intolerable. Although this cry may get sympathy immediately, it is only a flash in the air. In the long run, it will not only damage your dignity, but also your career image. In some cases, men can accept some women's tears, but for a supervisor, they must not. They will despise the women who can hardly cry, and conclude that they can not do great things. Therefore, you must learn to control your tears.