Five Tips For Improving Communication Taste

The original meaning of grade refers to the useful elements in the ore, but the percentage of its compound content, the greater the percentage of the content, the higher the grade. From this analogy, the so called Communication taste In fact, it refers to the content of civilization, culture, emotion, reason, spirit and other factors in communication. The greater the content, the higher the taste. So, how to make your communication more tasteful?

　 Faith and manners: be polite and polite.

Wen Zhibinbin, then gentleman. A man can be a respectable civilization only if he is polite and polite from appearance to essence. Civility and politeness include basic elements such as neat appearance, proper manners, civilized language, and polite manners. In the process of interpersonal communication, only by forming a tacit agreement and harmony between respect and respect can communication be carried out smoothly and continuously. Civility and politeness is the foundation of all interpersonal communication. It is also a basic requirement for your communication to be more tasteful. Taking an interview as an example, it is important to show your ability. The details of appearance and manners are also not allowed to show their abilities, but the importance of talent is not negligible. If you wear your clothes, be generous and decent; when you sit in your body and lean forward slightly, do not lean on the back of your chair; when you sit down, you should pay attention to your legs, otherwise you will be particularly ugly when you wear skirts; when you speak, you should not be too busy to avoid giving people the impression that you are so light and unruly; you should stop eating, such as chewing gum or smoking, in formal interviews. Drinking water should not be loud or carelessly sprinkling water on the table or floor; even sneezing, before or after all, should be said to be sorry and so on, which can be said to be polite and polite requirements. It seems simple and trivial, but it is actually a person's self-cultivation grade anytime, anywhere, concise and deep expression. Appearance, manners, civility and politeness is a self recommendation book of four sides, which will surely win the respect and favor of others. If we don't pay attention to the habit of being polite and courteous, we will be self defeating by acting deliberately.

　　 Language exchange: infiltration Culture breath

Yu Qiuyu, a famous writer, talked about such an experience in "Taiwan speech collection": "an excellent middle-aged entrepreneur in Taipei invited me to dinner. He also invited several famous scholars and political leaders. I did not expect that the topic of" Flowing Clouds and flowing water "between the banquet and dinner finally turned to study. No longer willing to leave this harbor. All the guests present have a good sense of culture. Just a few questions and echoes, everyone's heart is connected at a very high level. The protagonist of the conversation is an entrepreneur. He will not be too sour and pedantic. Everyone felt this evening interesting when we left. The second day also received the "conqueror of the world" sent by the entrepreneur. Autumn rain sighed: "this city can be so elegant in the night of the cup and plate, I have been very impressed by Taiwan entrepreneurs." The topic raised by a book made the meal full of cultural atmosphere and endless aftertaste. Compared with those "deep feelings, a stuffy", "emotional iron, stomach bleeding" Lake eating sea to drink, autumn rain gentleman's meal undoubtedly eat civilization. Elegant and tasteful. Culture is permeated in our life and is loved by us. To activate the cultural precipitation in life or to have a strong cultural atmosphere in communication is indeed a good way to make your communication more tasteful.

　　 Reciprocity: implication truth Real sense

To come and not to be impolite, courtesy and reciprocity are unavoidable things in interpersonal communication. Giving gifts to enterprises is a very difficult question. In our daily courtesy, there is a phenomenon of "going over without killing". "Long" is a high standard and rich type. Killing is frugal and simple. Many people think that the greater the amount of courtesy sent, the better you can make good friends. The more you can explain the relationship, the less you know the excessive etiquette. If someone calls the invitation a "penalty notice", it is a good illustration to call it "repayment". The ancients have "thousand miles to send goose feather, etiquette and light feelings", the gift is just a form or carrier, the real gold content lies in whether it contains deep feelings and kindness, true feelings. For example, when Armin was a college friend, Xiaowen had a child, and his friends and friends went to see it. The goose played a red envelope, some brought the baby's clothes, and some sent fruit milk powder. Armin had some brains for giving gifts. She was a stranger. She knew that in October, though it was hard to conceive, it was not easy to be a good mother. So she bought a mother's flower and a new book, "finding mother" to Xiaowen, and sincerely wished her to be as beautiful as flowers and become a great mother. This special gift is very happy for Xiaowen. Since then, two people have met and exchanged experiences about motherhood, and often talked about that book. Both sides have benefited greatly from it.

　 Facing contradictions: keeping a sensible attitude

Because of subjective or objective reasons, we often fall into the contradiction of communication. These contradictions are some problems that are not right or wrong, but we can often avoid an elephant but hide from a fly. The reason is that we lose our cool head, lack of rational attitude, reckless impulse and impetuous results in the face of contradictions. Instead of resolving it, it intensifies the contradiction and turns the small problem that is easy to solve into a thorny and difficult big trouble. It has plunged itself into a passive embarrassment and brought many unpleasant feelings to others. Eisenhower's mother warned him: "those who can control their feelings are greater than those who can take a city." This sentence is very enlightening for us to deal with the contradiction of communication. As a famous philosopher in ancient Greece, Socrates, once, when he talked with his friends enthusiastically, his wife burst into a big row and splashed a basin of water on his head and drilled him like a drowned rat. When the friend saw this scene, he could not help being shocked to see that there was going to be a fight. Socrates, however, was not angry. Instead, he said humorously, "I had expected that after thunder, it would be a downpour." My friends laughed and made the embarrassing scene alive. Socrates wife shrank out of shame. A seemingly inescapable family fight is the key of Socrates facing the conflicting and embarrassing problems of the test, keeping a rational attitude and demeanor, adopting humor instead of tit for tat, and turning embarrassment into activity and passivity as the initiative. If at that time, Su's impetuous impulse, he must fight with his wife for what is wrong. If you win or lose, then the conversation with friends will become a family farce, and the consequences are funny and ridiculous.

　　 Hand in hand with others: enhance spiritual attraction

One of the important functions of human communication is to put our spiritual life on the monotonous monotony of everyday things, giving ordinary life meaning, making it have a spiritual projection, a mild transcendence and an interesting sublimation. In order to reach a bosom friend, Guizhou must provide abundant spiritual nourishment, create spiritual joyful experience, and enhance the essence of each other. Gravity. C put forward a point of view. He said: "people will accept any kind of change, so long as it creates beauty, it is not important to see how far away from its artistic outlook. Beauty is a noble personal feeling and depends on the audience just like an artist. " Those "divine bonds" that are often talked about are often beyond the limits of age, sex, region, belief and so on. They reach the point of life and death, and they are astonishing and trying to weep. In fact, the so-called "divine friendship" is the spiritual intersection of spiritual Concord, mutual attraction and promotion. When Roland Rolland was 23 years old, he met Mason, 70 years old, in Fort Laurent, 70, and later in Mason's book, she wrote a deep description of this "years of friendship" in her book: "you know, in the late years, the greatest satisfaction is to find in your youth the same way of thinking as you do to the ideal, the higher goal, the contempt for the vulgar taste, and the struggle for personal freedom. The brave spirit now comes... Thanks to the arrival of the young man, I have been able to communicate with him for the highest level in the past two years. Through this continuous stimulation, I have gained the youth of my mind and my strong interest in all good things... " The spirit of communication can enhance interpersonal relationship to such a wonderful state. It is indeed worth people's admiration and devotion.