Secret: What Is The Most Important Thing In A Man'S Eyes?

First point: a good woman.

Some men like a woman and never judge from the woman's looks.

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Kindness, as an excellent quality of women, is their expression of human life, is the embodiment of their personality charm, and it is their unique attraction for men.

A woman in a man's eyes should be very kind. The so-called "human nature is good at the beginning," and a good woman is not attractive, even though her appearance is not beautiful.

If a woman has a good heart, she will be very considerate and emotional.

She can be frugal but her mind is unchanged, and she can also be wronged without losing her self-esteem. A good woman will not complain about others and will not complain. Even if one day is old, the good heart will never be wasted.

The second point: confident women.

Of course, for men, women need self-confidence as well as kindness.

Men want them to be full of meaning because they are confident and sexy.

In a society full of competition, women who are self complaining, weak and helpless have lost their market day by day.

Men are no longer the masters of women, and women are no longer the vassals of men.

"The ultimate pursuit of men is success, and women's pursuit of happiness is the ultimate."

Women learn to self rescue and self improvement are always the most important, and confident women can fight tough and tough.

Faced with setbacks, she can quickly adjust herself to bring herself back to the best condition. This is the way to survive in modern times.

In real life, there are women who put themselves in a position of begging for affection from the very beginning. Actually, the root of tragedy is always here: you are not confident in yourself, how do others value you? Men often do this: you value him too much, that is, he can easily dominate your feelings and happiness! In this respect, you lose first.

Because feelings are most concerned about respect and equality.

The third point is a woman with strong will and independence.

Women in men's eyes should be independent in their work.

Psychologists analysis that women tend to be more emotional than rational, and treat friendship, career and marriage as such. This is a fatal weakness that hinder women's development.

A girl working in Shenzhen, while other migrant workers and migrant workers are losing themselves in the impetuosity and bustling of modern cities, she still maintains the pure and pure peasant girl's true colors.

In her dorm, almost all the other girls had boyfriend, but she was still single.

"I don't like men in Shenzhen because my roots are not there," she told a friend in her hometown.

I just want to earn some money, send some to my family, and keep some dowry for myself.

Of course I will find a boyfriend later, but I will go home and find a man with a proper degree.

Like some of my sisters, some of them are not willing to be blue collar workers in the assembly line. They are racking their brains to go to the big money, can they always be happy? I just want to earn money by working hard, and then go home to live a quiet life.

This kind of standing on the basis of reality can soberly examine one's own minded woman, and also be a lovely woman in the eyes of men.

Women should be independent in the eyes of men.

Of course, this independence is not the kind of woman holding high red flag and resolutely fighting with men.

Independence is a very high level. It requires high quality of mind and brand new values.

For women who live in the spiritual world, if they lack the sense of independence, the whole person will become very gray. Men will not have a lasting interest in such women, and they will betray sooner or later.

Fourth point: goodwill and accessible women.

Women in the eyes of men should be well informed.

The goodwill here is nothing more than the gentleness of a woman, but here it is better to change gentleness to goodwill.

Men like women's gentleness because women's gentleness can warm men's hearts.

However, gentleness sometimes seems to be an unprincipled love.

A woman's love for a man who is not worthy of gentleness is, in a way, a man's sin.

Love should be moderated and should be good.

Therefore, a good woman should be well disposed towards men.

If women love too much, men will not know how to cherish it.

In this era, men are no longer accustomed to being fixed in a small living room, so that women should learn to adjust themselves, not to be simply trapped in love, and even to replace the whole life with emotion.

Smart and optimistic women can often try to make their hearts become accessible, and let love go strong and eternal in a dull way.

A knowledge-based woman, who loved her husband deeply, but did not forget to cherish herself when she loved her husband.

Her husband has been doing business abroad all year round, but their feelings are very harmonious.

Someone asked, "aren't you worried that he is looking for flowers outside?" the woman replied, "I have always been equal with his love."

From the day I accepted his love, I gave him trust, I loved him, but I did not ask him. I hope he will succeed and perfect, but I have never mortgaged all my life to him.

What do I worry about? In fact, sometimes, this is the case with feelings. It's the best grasp that you let go.

It can be said that a man with a sense of mind and a heart will naturally feel her loveliness.

Because a man falls in love with a woman at the same time, he does not want to lose his own side of the world under the restraint of love. Men care about the tacit understanding, tolerance and understanding of love.

Because this kind of love does not stop men from releasing their lives physically and mentally. After all, in the eyes of men, love can not represent the whole of life.

The fifth point is wisdom and knowledgeable women.

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Women in the eyes of men should be full of wisdom.

Smart women know which are important matters of principle, which are insignificant family trivia, treat everyone around them with confidence and tolerance, and emit the unique charm of women in the ordinary, but never care about everything.

Many women always like to conclude from the saying that women have no talent or virtue. As a woman, they should not be Tai Congming or competent, otherwise they will not be popular with men.

In fact, this is a wrong idea.

Wife is smart, capable, and can bring infinite honor to her husband, but also can satisfy the vanity of a man. Why is he unhappy? Just imagine how many beautiful women in history are more attractive because of her rare talent. Lin Whei-yin, a talented woman in modern literary history, is an example.

At that time, the famous poet Xu Zhimo was full of talent because of her talent, which made her all over the body emit an irresistible charm of beauty. So she pursued her desperately, but later failed to make Xu Zhimo feel depressed.