French Commercial Code Of Conduct For Women

Freedom, equality and fraternity -- the motto of French Republic is not entirely applicable to French business women.

French urban women mostly go out of their homes and participate in work, but rarely occupy high positions.

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Holzer (Mildred Reed Hall) survey shows that only in advertisements, make-up, fashion and art fields exceptions, most French professional women are only engaged in low-level jobs such as secretaries or clerks.

In addition, many French men, especially the older generation, find it difficult to accept the reality of business.

Not only men, but also some French women are dissatisfied with professional women in North America.

An American Marketing Director recalls that her female office manager of a French male colleague complained about her situation: "she asked me," who cares for my children? What do they eat? Who cooks? Why do you have a family? Why? "She means that since your child is at home, you should stay at home.

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Despite the many prejudices and prejudices, foreign women, especially women in the US and Canada, have been accepted by the French business community.

You may be harassed occasionally, but please remember that France respects beauty, fashion, cuisine and national language.

French commercial code of conduct for women:

Never be frivolous:

The French like to flirt with each other in their offices.

They exchange eyes, dress and so on.

They all think this is harmless.

French men are impressed by the charm of women, so American women should pay attention to charm when they arrive in France, but don't be frivolous.

Fashion:

French women dress very carefully, carefully choose the right coat and scarf, and wear the earrings and bracelets with them, and pay attention to every detail.

You should spend more time and energy on choosing clothes.

If the French see you wearing beautiful French scarves or French jewellery, they will be very happy.

When attending a business meeting, the tailored dress is more suitable for conservative colors.

An American woman recalls a dinner hosted by a senior executive at a company (an international chain hotel in France).

She was wearing her most expensive clothes and the same expensive new shoes.

She learned that the French and their rules in business occasions benefited her: "this is my first time with management. I naturally want to impress them, not to mention that in their homeland, France, this is why I wear the best costumes.

But the waiter accidentally tripped over the soup, spilled me all over, and the bowl hit me on the shoe.

Of course I was very angry and embarrassed, but I still tried to keep calm.

One of my female colleagues quickly took me to her room.

Luckily, I found that she was the same size as I was wearing.

I changed clothes and shoes quickly, and then returned to the dining table as if nothing happened.

"At that time, I was convinced that my expensive clothes and shoes had been irrevocably destroyed and I had to think as little as possible.

To my surprise, two hours later, my clothes and shoes were sent back intact, accompanied by a sincere apology and a bouquet of flowers from the host.

Patience and understanding are the most valuable assets in doing business in a foreign country.

Delicious food:

For the first time to France, enjoying French cuisine and visiting Le Louvre museum are unforgettable experiences. The two are French treasures.

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Jackson, an international businessman who worked and lived in Europe for many years, told her unforgettable memory of her eating in France: "I met my client in Normandy, and we had lunch at a local restaurant at noon.

After I had eaten the first course, I was already full.

As soon as the dish is withdrawn, the next dish will come up.

I have to eat a little, because if you don't eat, they will think you don't like it.

The meal took three hours, and finally a few dishes of cheese and dessert.

I ate so much that my stomach seemed to explode.

On the way back to Paris, the landlord invited me to have a simple supper.

Actually, there are seven dishes and red wine in this meal, and I have to eat every dish again to show my respect for the host.

I feel like I have had three Thanksgiving meals in a day. "

Instructions for dining:

Remember that the word "etiquette" in English is derived from French, and the French attach great importance to it.

For example, before dinner, you should wish others a good appetite.

Do not eat with French fingers except eating french bread.

French bread is relatively fragile, usually on the side of the table, usually without the special plate for bread.

This bread is mainly used to deliver food to the fork. Because of this, the French seldom put butter on bread.

Put your hands on the table and your wrist lightly at the table.

If you don't know what to do, watch the masters and follow them.

Salad is usually served after the main course.

Notice that when the French eat lettuce, they first use lettuce to roll up lettuce and then put it in the mouth.

Remember not to cut the lettuce.

Slice the fruit and eat it again.

Do not suck, unless the masters and wives do the same.

In general, red wine, white wine and mineral water are available.

Chatting is a very important part of a meal, but don't mention work unless your French colleague starts.

Language.

Compared with other ethnic groups, the French are more proud of their language.

They even made drastic laws for this purpose and set up "language police", which stipulates that foreign languages are not allowed in legal provisions and public documents.

Therefore, the French are sensitive to foreigners speaking French.

In a metropolis like Paris, if you speak French, you will probably get a cold shoulder.

But it's not rude, it's just that the French can't stand beginners to ruin their beautiful language.

One of the authors of this book once attended a luncheon, and the banquet was full of Frenchmen, including his peers and subordinates.

Although he could speak some French, neither he spoke English nor French, his deskmate had no intention of talking to him.

French speaking people who live in the countryside will speak more French or more.

But no matter in the city or in the countryside, you should learn some polite expressions, such as thank you, please, excuse me, Hello, goodbye, etc.

Anyone who has learned French knows that French is difficult to learn mainly in two points: 1, difficult to pronounce and difficult to distinguish; 2, in this society that likes to discuss difficult and philosophical questions, there are subtle differences in meaning.

When you speak French, be careful, but don't be afraid of making mistakes.

Treat.

When you invite your business partner to dinner at a high-end restaurant, you must ask the chef or restaurant owner to come to your table and tell them that they are very happy to know them.

Don't forget to give your photos to your guests.

Several suggestions:

Never call him by his name.

Use someone, Madam or lady to call someone else, unless you are allowed to call their names.

When speaking French, you must use your honorific name when you call the other person.

Wait until everyone at the table drops red wine before drinking it.

Even now, do not act rashly, because next, the host may drink after everyone poured wine, sometimes only a word "Sante", meaning "health" before drinking.

Remember that spoons and forks placed on plates are prepared for dessert.

You know that kissing your cheeks is usually used only between good friends, but when you shake hands with a French man, if he slowly pulls you forward, it means he is ready to kiss your cheeks across the air, maybe even cheeks.

And this is just a custom and acceptance.

Ready to shake hands with many people.

French businessmen like to shake hands whenever they meet or separate.

The second day will be the same.

Don't abuse compliments or excessive praise.

The French do not readily praise others.

They are more accustomed to criticism.

Don't speculate, it's just their way.

And excessive praise makes them feel very uncomfortable.

At the same time, we should also avoid boasting of his own country - the French have a strong nationalist idea and do not like others.

On the other hand, praising France and its culture and asking questions about French history, literature and art and geography are more acceptable to the French.

When entering a room, everyone must greet them.

Of course, the room is very crowded.

When you say "hello", you must add the title of "Sir", "madam" or "Miss".

Don't laugh too much.

The French usually don't laugh unless there are good reasons.

As mentioned above, teasing is very common and almost expected.

Use your charm to deal with it, but don't take the initiative.

Because if you don't understand the rules of the game, you will get into trouble.

Remember that in English, in addition to the word "etiquette", elegance, enthusiasm, alertness and other related words are derived from French.

These characteristics are very important to the French, so pay attention to their behaviors and manners.

Finally, if you hear that French people, especially the people of Paris, are vulgar, you should be able to feel some comfort when listening to the following facts, because the French government is very concerned about it and has launched a nationwide campaign to encourage people to be more friendly and elegant.