How To Save The Friendship You Once Had?

　 In the workplace, the quarrel or estrangement between colleagues often occurs when you don't know how to make up with your friends. If you follow this path, you can save the friendship you once had. ?

???? 1、 Find out the cause of the quarrel ?

???? If your argument is ridiculous, it will probably go away naturally. For example: your friend's tooth gurgling makes you uncomfortable; Or you two disagree on a point of view. In fact, none of these problems is a big deal. The most serious quarrel occurs when someone is really sad, disappointed and hurt by what his friends have done; When you reveal your friends' secrets and speak ill of them. ?

???? If you want to make up, it's up to you to apologize and mend. If you are angry because your friend ignored you when she was in trouble and treated you like a "punching bag", then she should change her practice. But usually, it's not easy. More often than not, it's not anyone's fault, or both of them, or no one can really figure out whose fault it is. This is the secret of how to reconcile. ?

???? 2、 Looking for and trying to reconcile ?

???? After a quarrel, friends will have a direct state of mind - worry. What most people fear most is rejection. It's cruel to be rejected, but it's not fatal. If your friends leave you and laugh at you, the friendship may not be the most sincere. But take a deep breath and relax yourself. This occasional behavior will help you and your friends to dispel the tension. ?

?? ?? 3、 Take the first step ?

???? Once you say goodbye to fear and worry, it's easier to talk to your friends. Don't wait for your friend to come to you. Although it is very important for her to take the first step, is it really so important who takes the first step? If you let the quarrel get worse, you two will lose friendship together. If you make up your mind, you are all winners. Don't wait for her to solve the problem. You should take responsibility for it. ?

???? Time doesn't wait for you, the sooner the better. ?

? ??? 4、 Step by step ?

???? We can't pretend that nothing has happened. We need to take the initiative to try and arouse each other's confidence with a positive attitude“ Hey, are you still angry? "“ Hello, let's talk about it when you have time. " If you ask her face-to-face, smile sincerely. ?

? ??? 5、 Listen to each other ?

???? If both of you are convinced that you are right, it's hard to listen to each other. But how do you figure out how your friends feel? You can say frankly, "I want to hear your opinion and tell me what you think, OK?" And when the other person is talking, don't interrupt her or argue with her. Let her feel that you respect her. Maybe the conflict can be solved better. ?