Communication Skills Between Friends

Two, no criticism, no reproach, no complaint, no attack, no preaching criticism, blame, complaint, attack are all executioners of communication, but only make things worse.

Three, mutual respect, only give respect to each other to communicate, if the other party does not respect you, you should also properly request the respect of the other party, otherwise it is very difficult to communicate.

Four, never say anything bad or bad, that is, the so-called "curse comes from the mouth".

Five, if we do not say what we should not say, if we say something we should not say, we often have to pay a heavy price to make up for it. It is what we call "one word is out of the question", "the illness is passed from mouth to mouth, the curse is coming out of the mouth", and may even cause irreparable lifelong regret. Therefore, communication can not be arbitrary and unobstructed, but without speaking at all, sometimes it will become worse.

Six, do not communicate in the mood, especially unable to make decisions. Communication in the mood is often not good enough, neither clear nor explicit; especially in the mood, it is easy to be impulsive and irrational, such as the quarrel of the unmarried couple, the parents who hate their enemies, the subordinates who have long held up their superiors, especially those who can not make emotional, impulsive decisions in the mood, which is very easy to make things irreversible and repent.

Seven, rational communication, irrational, do not communicate irrational, only disputes, there will be no results, and can not have good results, so this communication is useless.

Eight, mindfulness is not just communication but awareness. Everything is needed. If you say something wrong or do something wrong, if you don't want to cause irreparable harm, what's the best way to do it? "I am wrong". This is a kind of awareness.

Nine, admit that I was wrong and admit that my mistake is the disinfectant of communication, which can defrost, improve and transform communication problems. Just one sentence: I was wrong! How many people have done away with the old and new hatred? How many years can we get rid of the deadlock? Let people suddenly see the light, lay down their weapons, face themselves again, and begin to rethink life, even who am I? In this vast flow of the universe, what people care most about is "I". If someone does not respect me, suppress me, bully me or insult me, even if he is like a father and son, he may turn his back on him.

Ten, say sorry! Sorry, it does not mean that I have done anything big or wrong, but a softener, so that there is room for "turning around", and even can create "paradise". In fact, sometimes you are really wrong.

Eleven, let miracles happen. Now they are willing to admit each other's mistakes. They are creating heaven and miracles for themselves and their families.

Twelve, love is all about love. Love is the greatest healer.

Thirteen, waiting for a turn, if there is no turning point, we must wait; the urgency will only improve the mind; of course, do not think that waiting for the empty, the results will fall from the world, or you have to work hard, but efforts will not necessarily have the result or the end, but if you do not work hard, you will have nothing.

Fourteen, patience is the only thing that requires patience, and where there is a will, there is a way.

Fifteen, wisdom and wisdom make people unclinging, but also to the soul.

Sixteen, retain a little innocence and innocence, not necessarily ignorant, not necessarily play the fool, but the degree of clarity between people. When we are a little older, less tempered, and gradually clear, some things can be understood for a lifetime, and some things need to be understood for a lifetime. Perhaps the world is too big, too many people, too confused, too late to see, too late to think, too late to understand. In the era of colorful packaging, we need a little more innocence and a sense of transparency.