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How Many Times In The Workplace Do We Bump Into The South Wall Before We Go Back?

2008/10/15 15:39:00 41857

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It is impossible for a man not to make mistakes, but the two accomplices should not be wrong.

The same is true of my career.

Many times, even when you don't even realize it, a wrong decision can lead you astray in your career.

A losing career, a lost feeling

Oral: Wang Li (a pseudonym), has just left the company, unemployed

Recently, I am out of luck. My job is gone. My girlfriend who has been in love for seven years has broken up. If I comment on 06 of the ten most unfortunate youths in Shanghai, I guess I can not be finalists.

Now I really don't want to find a job, but I can't stay at home anymore.

Looking for a job, I am confused. Several failed employment experiences make me really afraid that the next job will be unfortunate.

I really don't know what to do. I came to Xiangyang career career planning management consulting company for help.

I graduated from a key university in Shanghai in 03 years.

When we were allowed to use computers in dormitories, we became one of the first people in the class to have computers.

I have a special fondness for computers since then.

At the senior year, I dare say that my computer level is no less than that of any computer student in the school computer department.

I am familiar with the daily operation of computers, troubleshooting, performance optimization and network information acquisition and integration.

When we graduated from college, our administration major was relatively hard to find, especially for boys.

It will be our class are basically looking for assistant, sales, customer service this piece.

I was looking for a late job. My first job was sales, and I worked in a daily chemical company.

At that time, my salary was calculated on the basis of the basic salary.

The base salary is very low. For those of us who are new, we can hardly get any commission at the beginning. We can earn less money in a month and keep looking at the customers' faces.

However, because the temptation and bad performance of the performance bonus at the end of the year may be eliminated by the company, everyone who sells is working hard and the competition inside the company is fierce.

I am not interested in sales work, and my performance is poor.

Once I learned that a college friend who had done foreign trade was very moist and had a high salary.

So I began to learn foreign trade knowledge in my spare time, and I plan to switch to foreign trade in the future.

Maybe I am really not suitable for sales. My performance is getting worse and worse. I have been "valued" by my boss for several times.

That was a customer I met during the sales. He said I was good at it and knew that I had the idea of changing careers. He introduced me to a good friend of his, an advertising company manager.

The manager seemed to appreciate me, and asked me if I would like to be a marketing assistant to his company, but not, but the salary was two times as high as that of the Japanese company, and there were quarterly bonuses, year-end dividends, holiday subsidies and other benefits.

I listened and soon agreed.

When I signed a contract formally, I only wrote monthly salary and no other benefits from the manager. I asked, the manager said that this is a unified contract of the company, and the welfare of each post is different, so there are no other benefits listed.

Considering that my friend recommended privately, I didn't think much about signing it.

However, I was very disappointed with the actual work that followed. Besides salary, all the benefits that the manager had promised before were not fulfilled.

The manager's explanation is that the company is in its infancy, and its efficiency is not good enough.

I am not only doing my job well, but also doing lots of chores.

I felt I had no prospects for further development and resigned, and asked for an additional two months' salary according to the commitments I signed at that time.

I didn't expect the manager to say that I resigned voluntarily, not being dismissed by the company, and unable to increase wages.

I felt as if I was being fooled and quarrelled with the manager on the spot. As a result, the manager asked security to put me out.

The work has not been smooth, and my personality has become very different from before.

Grumpy, smoking, drinking, these are my girlfriend's most annoying.

Once we quit our job, we had a quarrel over the trifles.

Maybe she has been putting up with me for too long in the past two years. She has put too much pressure on her.

Career planners' comments: three fatal choices

Although Wang Li has only three years' working time, it has obviously made many detours since its development.

From the analysis, the three critical choice made Wang Li's career go on a detour, and further and further.

Mistake 1

Wang Li's first crooked road after graduating from college is also the key mistake that led to his subsequent career falling into disharmony. He did not calm down and analyze his strengths and weaknesses before pursuing his first career. He analyzed his interests, hobbies and suitable career, let alone make a career planning with his own characteristics. Instead, he made a job that he did not like or did not want to do at all.

Assuming that when Wang Li realized this, he might find himself superior to other students in the field of computer technology, and this is also his interest, which is perhaps more suitable for work related to computer technology (hard work).

Moreover, it is believed that this kind of work will not be difficult to find by virtue of the existing technical foundation of Wang Li and the large market demand of such personnel.

Another pity is that Wang Li's choice was to follow big stream to squeeze a single log bridge.

Error two

Although the basic sales work has a low starting point, it is not without a start. Nowadays, how many leading figures in various industries are from the sales.

All the difficulties and setbacks in the sales work will be temporary if they are willing to learn more, study more, sum up experience, and ask for outstanding predecessors with great modesty. If there is no better opportunity at the moment, doing the first job well will lay a good foundation for the long-term career development in the future.

However, Wang Li did not realize this. Although he felt that the sales work was not suitable for himself, his eyes had seen the hard work and the enviable job of his classmates. The result was not only mediocre performance, but also no rational thinking about his future career development.

On the contrary, using spare time to learn skills and knowledge which is irrelevant to their job is not only a waste of time, but also a further confusion of future development.

Error three

Wang Li's second job can be said to be "a blessing in heaven", but it may be too fast and too easy for "good things" to make him have no time to think about whether the job is suitable for himself or not, so that he can relax his vigilance in his own protection.

The friend whom the manager knows him has no deep friendship with Wang Li. He is a Wang Li who knows his client's identity. His acquaintance is based on interest relationship.

Without further in-depth contacts, the reliability and sincerity of such friendship can be doubtful.

Because of this friend relationship, Wang Li believed in an oral welfare promise without "black and white" evidence.

The last fact also proves that the "good job" from the "oral promise" ended in disunity and, more fatal, made Wang's career fall into an unprecedented chaos and affected his mood and further worsened his career development.

Career planner's notes

Take a detour and turn back as soon as possible.

There is a fairy tale about a kitten fishing by the river. After a while, he sees dragonflies flying, and runs to catch dragonflies.

As a result, fish did not catch fish all day, and dragonflies did not catch them.

From the very beginning, Wang Li went unconsciously on this wrong road. Later, he chose to go farther and farther on the crooked road because of continuous mistakes.

I believe that many people are walking along the same road. Few people can realize this and go back in time before they hit the south wall.

Nowadays, many people, especially young people, are rushing ahead in their work, rushing ahead, not giving the time for thinking, nor summarizing the space. In the end, they not only messed up work, but also messed up their lives.

Assuming that Wang Li can find problems in time and remedy them in time after his first step, his career will be corrected in time.

Moreover, many times we neglect that work is for a better life.

This leads to a strange cycle: we work harder and work harder while we mess up our lives.

More often than not, we should calm down and think about how to balance work and life. In fact, they can be reconciled.

Wang Li suffered many setbacks in his career. He mistakenly regarded his career as his whole life and neglected that it constituted only a part of life.

Sun career career planner reminds Wang Li that there are many parents, girlfriends, family beds, many things in your life.

You should not treat other parts of your life in the way you treat your work.

They are independent of each other and require people to integrate reasonably so as to maximize their utility.

All in all, if you are on the road, hurry up, realize this problem and return to it as soon as possible.

Everyone's career is limited and irreversible. Don't waste too much precious time on detours.