"Lazy Before Rich" Is The Loss Of Values

The so-called "lazy before rich" means that some people, especially the young and middle-aged people who should be the backbone of society, start to slack off and enjoy their work, career, wealth and other aspects before reaching the level where they can not work hard. In society, there are many "squatting at home" who are old, "rich second generation" who are unwilling to start a business and take over, and "demolition second generation" who are unwilling to make progress relying on their houses. In the workplace, some business backbones who had worked hard encountered "the ceiling of the workplace". After many encounters, their ideals were smoothed and they were discouraged.

The reason is, first of all, the comfortable life without worrying about food and drink is easy to make people lazy. Nowadays, it is no longer a problem to eat and dress. Some people have the mentality of "getting rich while they are young". They feel that it is good to eat and drink. There is no need to make themselves so tired. The "rich second generation" and "demolition second generation" feel that the money earned by their parents or the demolition money "falling from the sky" can take a lifetime, so they don't have to work hard. And some workers, when they get to the middle level, feel that their career can end here, and it's time to reward themselves.

Secondly, family education is to blame. In the Chinese family concept, parents do not want their children to suffer hardship and injustice, and the inheritance of wealth from generation to generation has become an unspoken rule. Nowadays, most of them are only children and have no competitors. Many people begin to wait and inherit everything from their parents. Most Chinese parents live for their children. Children just need to accept everything arranged by their parents step by step. It is this mentality of the parents that the gnawing old people get right.

Third, young and middle-aged people's values are "calcium deficient". Today's China is in an era where success is measured by wealth. In addition, China has said since ancient times that "people laugh at poverty rather than prostitution". The deformed social evaluation system allows people to compare the results rather than the process. As a result, the ordinary life obtained through hard work is not considered successful, which is considered to be beneath dignity and dignity.

Finally, no matter in the workplace or business, the phenomenon of seniority and "competing father and mother" is very serious, which to a large extent frustrates young people with no background, making them have a strive It is difficult to change the illusion of destiny.

When "being lazy before being rich" becomes quite a part of people's life When choosing, society may lose the sense of hardship and hinder development. As far as individuals are concerned, they cannot make great achievements in their work without hard work. What's more, life is like sailing against the current. No matter what assets you have worked hard for or what assets your parents have left behind, you will have to eat your cake one day. The longer inertia exists in the body, the deeper the nerve of the whole person will be paralyzed. When it is necessary to work hard on your own, you may be "unable to climb".

First, young people's value It's about struggle. No matter what your parents are like, you have to go your own way in life. Parents may be helpers, but they can't experience wonderful life instead of themselves. The real happiness is not only to enjoy the pleasures of the senses, but also to make your life meaningful and give full play to your potential. Second, the society should strengthen the guidance of values. For example, Americans who advocate starting from scratch take Madonna, the singer, and Zuckerberg, the founder of social media Facebook, as examples. It is also necessary to build laws and systems to dredge up the upward channels for ordinary people, create a fair and just competitive environment, so that more young people can find the possibility of life breakthrough in their wandering and migration, and thus stimulate the internal motivation of hard work. Third, young parents should start from the education of this generation and consciously let their children suffer, so as to prevent being lazy before being rich from being "inherited".