Workplace: Women's Minor Psychological Disadvantages Become Dominant

Women in the moment Workplace More and more compliments have been received in this regard, but many women still have some psychological weaknesses due to gender reasons. In fact, these disadvantages can be improved in the workplace.

The psychological disadvantage of workplace women:

Work lacks regulation, and there is seldom any combination of work and rest.

Many women will find themselves working machines at work. The money in the credit card has risen by a few percentage points, and the wrinkles in their eyes are increasing exponentially. They often wonder, is this life? The answer is, of course, negative. For professional women, work is important, but never turn yourself into a slave to work.

Not good at working with male colleagues or male clients. Communicate And cooperation

Women in the workplace will encounter more or less the situation of working with male colleagues and male clients. How to deal with the relationship with the opposite sex is not only related to your image in other people's eyes, but also affects your mood. In fact, the solution to such problems is also very simple. Keep your distance, but do not lose intimacy. Do not let men feel that you are a curvy iron frail woman or a weak sense of opportunity. The most important thing is to eliminate office romance as much as possible.

Too conservative, don't like change.

In women's character, most of them have the elements of peace and self-sufficiency. They do not like to take risks, but often they are less satisfied than others. Therefore, few can make transcendental actions. Success requires not only hard work but also courage and adventure. Overcome fear and face Challenge I believe I can do it. This is the difference between winners and mediocrity.

Lack of plan and efficiency

Generally speaking, women do things more carefully. But at the same time, there is a lack of high-level planning and co-ordination arrangements. In addition, some of the projects that are not up to their needs are always shelved, until the critical juncture comes to an end. To really overcome this obstacle, the first step should be to recognize clearly what we are capable of doing, and never do too much of our own ability. Then we should think deeply about the details, make overall plans, and remind ourselves that we should be alert and efficient.

Waiting for discovery without waiting for a show of water

Holding this mentality indicates that there is still lack of confidence in one's ability. With strong dependence and inertia, it will not strive to gain the position of interest, and will not show their superiors and talents to their superiors. Just waiting for others' discovery blindly and passively. This is a very foolish idea, which is nothing short of Arabian Nights. The clever way is to tell your real needs in time when the boss has confirmed his devotion to work, which will make the boss feel that you are a person who understands himself and is full of self-confidence. The key is to get the job he really likes.

Hope for good people, and be too strict with yourself.

Be careful and prudence, pay attention to everything, for fear of offending your colleagues or superiors, and for everyone's request, smiling face to face, always showing an excessive "easy-going". In fact, this attitude towards human affairs is not only unintelligent, but its consequences often cause itself to be in an awkward position. In the workplace, there is no need to embarrass everyone in order to win the favor of everyone. As long as we stick to our principles and work honestly, we can be wise. We must know that making achievements is the premise of our company's foothold.

All you know is hard work but no performance.

If you are not good at expressing yourself, and do more work than others, you may get the same salary as others. Besides working, there is almost no personal life. At work, we should learn to express ourselves in a timely manner, and strive to make outstanding achievements. We should pay more attention to letting our superiors know them, because every effort should be rewarded.

Negative emotions are too high and attitudes are negative.

Some women often get used to making a complaint first when they encounter problems, and rarely start from the reality of the problem, find their own shortcomings, and then solve it. We must realize that complaining can not solve any problem, and only by facing it positively is the key to solve the problem. It is extremely unwise to compete against each other under the same roof in all kinds of battles in the office.

The best way is to choose a way of mutual benefit, unity and avoidance of contradictions for people who are not accustomed to or have conflicts of interest. This not only shows your tolerance, but also reflects your overall interest in the company. Remember, taking the overall situation into consideration is the first quality that corporate decision-makers appreciate. {page_break}

Smart women are good at making use of some "little moves" to help themselves improve their mental inferiority. Their elegance is always reflected in one hand, one throw, and even one smile.

Try and use these little moves to communicate with others, which will surely benefit you.

A smiling face drives business up.

Xu Min worked as an office director in a newly established advertising company. Her office has three functions: administration, logistics management and personnel management. Xu Min's predecessor was not inferior to her in terms of education, experience or work attitude and boldness. She even surpassed Xu Min in some aspects. But in the end, she did a lot of work, but could not get the recognition from her colleagues and superiors. Everyone felt that she was very arrogant and finally forced to leave. Summing up the lessons of previous failures, Xu Min came to the conclusion that there must be a smiling face.

The competition in the advertising industry is fierce, and the job pressure of the advertising salesmen is very great. They most want their work to be supported and understood by the company. If they can see a friendly and encouraging smiling face in the company after dealing with all kinds of customers, their hearts will be filled with thick warmth. Smiling people always convey a message to colleagues: I admire you very much, I trust you, I would like to be your friend, we will cooperate very happily.

Now, no matter how heavy and complex the work is, Xu Min never shows up on his face and always keeps a friendly smile. Her "performance appraisal measures" were successfully implemented within the company, and the company's business volume also increased significantly.

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There was once a motto in the world: "a person's smile is worth millions of dollars." From Xu Min's point of view, this is not an exaggeration. It is enough to explain how important a smile is to people's interactions and personal careers. In the face of different occasions and different situations, if you can treat others with smiles, you can reflect the excellent accomplishment and sincerity of others, and are very easy to be accepted by others.

Attractive voice, a phone signed a large list.

Li Tao is the manager of a powerful trading company. Many people call him every day to discuss cooperation with him. But recently he unexpectedly signed a small order with a small unknown enterprise.

Li Tao said, "it really owes to the female saleswoman who called. In fact, she did not have any eloquence, but it was very objective to introduce me to their businesses and products. Her voice was deep and powerful, and her voice conveyed sincerity, enthusiasm and confidence that the language could not express. I couldn't help but trust her. After several phone calls, I personally went to the field for a visit, and finally reached an agreement. Through this, I came to the conclusion that pleasant sounds add some attraction to speakers while they delight in hearing. Now I ask the salesmen of the company not only to pay attention to their own appearance, but also to train their voices.

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Round and pleasant voice is the congenital superiority of women. In the same sentence, high or low voice and intonation will affect expression and give people different feelings and evaluations. Some women like to raise their voices very high, sharp and soft. They may think they are very attractive, but they actually give people the impression that they are very artificial. The truly attractive voice is low, like the famous American language expert, Doroth Sarnoff, who has lowered her voice and lowered her voice to her students. As a result, they found that the lower their voice was, the better and more attractive and attractive they were.

Graceful posture and posture.

As a professional makeup artist, Liang Wei has a deep understanding of women's beauty.

"Because of my career, I met many beauties. I think women are great. They can express different beauty at any time and anywhere. However, they can also destroy beauty wherever and wherever they want. In most cases, those beautiful female guests will stand or sit in front of me. Pleasant, detailed expressions, graceful natural posture and beautiful costumes make me feel that she is respected and loved both at home and at home. However, some girls, though dressed beautifully and fashions, can sit there without any confidence. The most intolerable thing is that when some guests sit there waiting, they shake their legs and keep shaking. It's like impatience. When I meet such a rude person, I usually turn my back on her instead of looking at her. I don't feel beautiful in her beautiful clothes. "

"Some girls do not understand beauty. They think they will be beautiful if they wear beautiful clothes. In fact, it is the stretching posture that determines the effect of clothing on your body, not the other way around. No more beautiful clothes can change the bad impression of a depressed person. "

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For women, the correct standing posture is to raise their head, straighten their chest, tighten their abdomen, relax their shoulders, place their front feet lightly, and put the center of gravity on the hind legs. When standing, the feet will be "T". I feel as if I have the power from above to pull up my head and body, my hands gently beside them. The comfortable, generous posture conveys to the surrounding people the calm, calm and calm information.

The correct sitting posture is to enter the basic stance, the hind legs can touch the chair, and then sit down gently. Two knees up, both feet in the middle or on both sides. If you want to lift your legs, your legs should also be in place.