What Does Wearing Exposure Have To Do With It?

A few minutes ago, the video of a few minutes was turned around and attracted a lot of attention. Without him, the content of the video was on a bus that a young woman who was exposed was sleeping on the back seat of the front seat. The old man on the front seat was the other protagonist of the video. The old man took the trouble to turn around and look at MM, which was almost all low. Expose Out of the chest. This scene happened to be seen by the passengers sitting on the opposite side, and the video was captured on the cell phone. There was a lot of controversy at that time. There were criticisms of the old man who was "wet". They criticized the girl for wearing too little and not enough in public.

Outside China, in early June this year, Australia held a large-scale "slut parade", emphasizing that women should be able to dress according to their own preferences and should be respected. This stems from what Canadian police Mike Sanguineti said in a speech: "women should not dress like a slut" to avoid sexual assault, triggering a strong rebound from the outside world and turning it into a global protests.

Therefore, we can not help thinking about this problem from two aspects. The first is the implicit exposure of the traditional Chinese concept and the exposure of which scale. The second is whether the exposure of women is beautiful or genuine. Source In this period, we will start with the psychological topics from these two aspects, and ask psychological counselors to help us analyze one or two.

Women's confidence in their bodies?

Psychological counselors tell us that there was such an experiment: let a group of women first give their own physical status scoring, such as whether she thinks her body is sexy and beautiful. Then offer her some sexy and revealing clothes, then put on some public display.

The results show that women who are more confident in their figure and show confidence are more likely to be exposed to clothes. Conversely, women who are not satisfied or lack confidence in their bodies tend to be conservative in dress.

Psychological counselors analysis said that from the above experiment, we can at least first clear a fact, that is, the exposure of women's clothing may not be related to the weather and the seasons. It is not only when the weather is hot in summer that women choose to dress and expose. This is actually a reflection of women's view of their body. Although not necessarily the embodiment of one hundred percent, at least it can be considered that those women who like to wear less are recognized and appreciated by their inner body, which is also a manifestation of self-confidence. {page_break}

In addition, this experiment can also be used in another way, for example, the same woman is presented in two sets of costumes. The biggest difference between the two sets of clothes is that they wrap the figure very tightly and the other set is more exposed and sexy. Then ask the woman to put on two different costumes to appear in front of a group of people, and ask everyone to make an assessment of her self-confidence. Note that in this transformation experiment, "everyone" has become the main body of the experiment, and the result of the experiment also shows that the women who wear the tight outfits are usually less confident in their self-confidence. Instead, when she (the same person) is wearing another set of more revealing and sexy clothes, "everyone" comments on her that she is confident in herself.

Of course, from the above two different subjects, we can get some inspiration, that is, to a certain extent, clothing to express the degree of self-identity of women and whether they have the corresponding self-confidence. But why the video on the bus will cause many netizens to focus on low breast MM? A Canadian policeman's words triggered a wave of "slut parade".

This is actually not difficult to understand. Chinese and Western ideas are different. Chinese traditional culture is implicit and not suitable for exposing the body which is usually regarded as more privacy. In addition, the degree of acceptance and recognition of Chinese women has gradually begun to change and open in recent years. The exposure scale is gradually increasing, which is very different from the long-standing concept of Western women.

In western society, men and women alike regard their bodies as "God bestowed". They can be accepted and treated no matter what they grow up, not because they are too fat or imperfect.

Therefore, we can once again get the inspiration that although clothing expresses to some extent the degree of self-identity of women, and whether they have corresponding self-confidence, it can only serve as a reference, not necessarily suitable for all occasions and for all people.

In the view of psychological experts, Chinese women's dress exposure can be interpreted as a psychological need to get others' attention. This can be said to be a kind of survival instinct of human beings. It can also be said to be the focus of attention in modern society, and it is not the case that some stars and models are "off the mark". In our daily life, there is such a distorted mentality that if we want to win the attention of others and draw attention from the attention of the people around us, the exposure of clothing is the most concise and effective way. At the same time, the same distortion of psychology is related, that is, the more attention you get, the greater the charm of yourself, and whether the starting point of this concern is goodwill or malice, there is a psychological vanity and satisfaction to the parties.

Is exposure related to sense of security?

Psychological experts point out that the exposure of women's clothing can also be seen as a barometer of the economy in a sense. The length of skirt is likely to be related to the state of the market economy. This is a very interesting topic, and some cases can be found in the history of mankind.

For example, after the collapse of the US stock market in 1929, when the Great Depression came, women's skirts were basically below the knee length. The so-called "golden age" in 60s of last century, the Dow Jones index climbed ten thousand points, the mini skirt has become the main role of women's clothing. In 70s of last century, the embargo of national oil led to American economy Most of the women on the street changed into skirts with long ankles.

So far, according to the data observed in the past, the length of female skirt seems to be related to the economic situation at that time. The shorter the skirt length is, the better the market economy is, the worse it is. The reason for this is interpreted as "anxiety", but from a psychological point of view, I am afraid it is more related to "safety".

Relatively speaking, in the era of poor market economy, most people will have a "lack of security" mentality, and in the era of good economic conditions, the sense of inner security will also be abundant. This explains, from another aspect, the issue of exposure to dress length and dress in different periods and women. Women who are insecure are likely to tend to be conservative because they are eager to wrap themselves up and have a place to hide. Women who do not have a sense of security may choose to dress in a more sexy and revealing way to express themselves. (expert: Yu Donghui psychological crisis intervention committee member, psychological specialist of Xinhai Rong psychological counseling institution,