A Boss Wrote To A Young Woman

Today, the administrator recommended another Ms. Liu with good quality to my office for an interview. I scanned her resume and saw through her. But I asked her to describe that she has been working as a salesperson for four years, changed three projects, and rested for one year. Now she is 28 years old. She came to our company and hopes to continue working on projects to receive customers

The personnel recruited by our company can be classified into three categories: property consultants, so-called marketing, project sales, and administrative clerks

I always ask the women interviewed to choose. They are often willing to work in administration, followed by sales, and few choose marketing. Even if I told them that the property consultant has the highest base salary and commission, and can still be a manager in the future, it would be easy to transfer to the Administration Department or the Project Department, they would still not change their choice

It's strange that their selection order is just the opposite of how much they earn. In fact, their selection order is in accordance with the pressure order of their work, that is, they would rather find a job that is less stressful, stable, and idle, even if they earn less money, have less opportunities for appreciation, and are difficult to develop. Unfortunately, I would not even employ such a person in the administrative department, Because they have no ambition and will not learn, unless there is an urgent vacancy in the company.

They are all around 25 years old, and some of them are really cute, but I am really worried about their future, because it is very likely that their future will be very troublesome, or even have a miserable second half of their lives

They seek comfort when they can bear hardships, and fall in love when they can learn best. Because their plan is to get married and have children before the age of 28, dressing up and making friends is their whole world. Of course, enjoying the happy time of youth is also the most attractive thing for them. Even if they ask for leave and resign, they will not take it seriously

Naturally, at the age of 28, they married a rich or potential man as scheduled. The reason why this man married her was often because she was in full bloom. -

At that time, her husband was probably still in the development stage of her career. She listened to her husband very much, quit her job and went home. She became a full-time wife. Some of them were still working unintentionally until they had children.

For women who have always been at the bottom of the staff, having children is almost the end of their career. Unless they are in a public institution, if they are in a general unit, they often resign because of this. They are pregnant until birth, and feed their children for half a year. When everything recovers, they will have a headache when they think about going to work. First, it is not easy to find a free job, because at that time, they need to find a job that can go home earlier. Otherwise, they cannot take care of their children, and they are not at ease, Secondly, I found that I wanted to hire an aunt to replace me. After thinking about it, she was more expensive than me. As a result, she gave me an excuse to educate my children and take care of them until I grew up. In fact, her lack of career pursuit and fear of social work also contributed to her becoming a professional wife

The economic burden of the whole family falls on the husband. The husband keeps working hard and learning in his career, keeps communicating with his business relationship, improves his quality, improves his position and money, and has a larger circle of friends. The society keeps improving, and the husband also keeps making progress

In fact, my wife is not so busy. The child has gone to kindergarten. She is alone, and the child has gone to school. She is still alone. Occasionally, she and another wife who does not work will go shopping and beautify together. But she finds that she is getting farther and farther away from the society. She has plucked up the courage to step into the society again several times, but she is too old to forgive others. She cannot do the original grass-roots work, In fact, such women are not particularly virtuous. They gradually lose interest in housework. After all, women in the new era are not willing to stay at home. But they regret that they didn't study hard when they were young, didn't learn anything when they were working, and didn't really devote themselves to any industry, How can we start and persist without a skill? When we can bear hardships, we enjoy ourselves and eat all the sweets of life. Now, in addition to constant hesitation, it affects our mood and even bothers our husband

But she can bear it. After all, she has a happy family, a husband who loves her and lovely children. But she often complains about the fussy housework. She has given everything for the family. Her husband is too lazy to argue with her. In fact, he wants to say that I am fighting for the family

Her biggest wish is to let her husband talk with her patiently for a while, but he came home late because of social interaction. Even if he returned home, he would not talk and watch TV to sleep. Women would not let him sleep and quarrel. My husband thinks that this woman is becoming more and more unreasonable. Women feel that men do not love her so much

For a happy couple, quarreling is flirting, while for an indifferent couple, it is to break the numbness. It is often annoying, and it is often a complete aversion. -

The different roles of two people in social life determine the huge difference between two people. This difference has caused the reduction of common language. The charm that women attracted men at the beginning is no longer there, but domineering and neurotic, constantly harassing men until men really have an affair

A woman who lives in fear, with an inferiority complex that she does not want to admit, secretly checks her husband's mobile phone when he is asleep. What a pathetic scene! What can she find. -

A woman's miserable life has begun. In fact, it has already begun. At this time, she will grow old in loneliness. She will be accompanied by housework and TV. If she is energetic, she will also be accompanied by her family. Of course, as revenge, she will even waste her husband's money. She is not happy, even surfing the Internet. In fact, she can't find anything on the Internet, There may be a relatively idle and boring person who will talk with her for her husband

Her husband not only talked little to her, but also seemed to move very little. In short, there was no hope of suffering, no suspense, until old age. If divorced, she will fall into despair, because life was her whole life -

If a woman has no career or study when she is young, her life has become more and more miserable and miserable since she gave birth to a child

But a woman with a career keeps enriching herself. Love is not the whole of her life. He and men have too much in common. Having children is just a small delay for her, because she is already in the management. I have a friend of the decoration company, the deputy general manager, and a seemingly weak woman. She was born naturally when her boss drove her home before labor, Less than a month later, I called her. She was on a business trip in Wuhan. The child was healthy and the family was well arranged. Her example may be extreme, but it illustrates many problems

When a man has an affair, it's really not all because of lechery. To be honest, if your wife and you nag incessantly because of trivial family matters when you are worried about the crux of your career, you tell her about business management, and she tells you about the discount in the mall. You are very sleepy. Because of the pressure, she hits you with a pillow. You say how annoying it is. If you look at the woman opposite, With a ferocious face and muddy mouth, what can you say about such a woman? She will not only suffer, but also bring trouble to her responsible husband

Women with careers are very beautiful. Look at them in the world of men; Women in learning are very beautiful and talented. It is hard to express the pleasure of living with such women. They may not be as gorgeous as vases, but they will make you quiet, sweet, happy and respectful

In modern society, the economy is so developed that if a woman decides to be a full-time wife, it is because she has retreated. If it is a man's decision, it is selfish and makes a mistake to herself

I told the interview girl the general meaning. She said that she knew this would happen, but she still felt that she did not want to suffer hardship and take risks. She believed that the man who loved her would not do that

What is suffering? You really haven't seen hard work. Look at the moving company and the workers on the construction site. Can you make phone calls in the office? In a high-end office building with air conditioning, is it hard to visit customers? Listen to the boss, read books carefully, and check information on the Internet, which is hard work? Such female employees have interesting interpersonal relationships. Their friends in the company are not conducive to business progress, but have male charm. They do not work together, but can play together or chat together -

This is why the divorce rate is high in China today. The so-called Chinese style divorce is constantly happening, and in my opinion, it will continue to happen. How can a woman become a baby sitter after having a child? Why should she use all her energy for home? Don't forget that she has also received a good education and had dreams But what changed her life path? -

Of course, a man without a career will be more miserable. His misery is that he has never eaten sugar in his life. It is worse than a woman's

This article is dedicated to the female employees of the company. Because the world is complex, some people may think that the words are extreme and cover the whole. After all, happy families are the same, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes Women should be spoiled and loved. Men teach women to be enterprising. How indifferent and inconsiderate they seem. Only the boss can be so mean and pragmatic. But it is this despicable boss who gives women the same opportunities for equal promotion as men in the company. He is distressed by those female confidants who have fought side by side with him, The talented female staff members he has worked hard to cultivate have withdrawn from the career stage early. Those women who pursue equality on the lips silently think that women are weak -

A woman who pursues her career is so charming. The charm is so profound. Her hard work and talent at any time are so charming and can stand the scrutiny of time Such women should be given more consideration and care, because they are worthy and needed -

Those female employees who are still naive, pampered and complain about depression. If your career goal is no goal, how can I ask you not to be late for work? I really don't know when your boyfriend will let you resign at a word They have received too much care. They have plenty of time for rest and entertainment. They will spend the rest of their lives in laziness in the future. What else can we talk to them about? I don't think they are attractive, especially for me. When they quit, I almost didn't bother to keep them -

Because my jokes are incomprehensible to them, and my tragedies are jokes to them