Story: When It Comes To The Workplace, Let's Talk About It.

Confide: Li Ming (a pseudonym), male, 28 years old, graduate student.

After graduation, I was assigned to a large one. Consulting company The work almost made all the students jealous. It is natural for me to be able to enter this highly paid company by virtue of my strength rather than my relationship.

On the first day of my work, I was full of confidence. I did not pay any attention to what my teachers and elder sisters warned me to do in front of their old colleagues. Be modest and prudent Guard against arrogance and impetuosity.

Sitting at the table with me is a woman about 40 years old. Her colleagues call her Liu Jie. Maybe the women of this age are nagging, or because I am a new person. In short, she always likes to pick me up. A desk? Top decorations and star photos can easily affect work and so on.

After listening to my thoughts, I replied, "Sister Liu, you don't know the young people now, but they can do the work well. And tired of work, it's a good adjustment to look at these fashionable things. " Liu Jie didn't say anything more, but his face was obviously ugly.

A few days later, I made a slight mistake in the accounts, and she accused me like a grip. Since then, the friction between the two of us has also increased.

Because of the outstanding performance, my first month's bonus was very high. Some colleagues in the rest of the time half jokingly said: Xiao Li, just working to make such an excellent result, it can be a guest. I listened to my face with pride: "what is this? I have done a lot of work in a year. I will invite you to eat in the big hotel in the city!" but then they found that they did not like to talk to me very much. Sometimes they watched the conversation with excitement, and I ran excitedly to join in, but when they just got together, they looked for reasons to disperse.

Before I knew the truth, I went to the annual review of the advanced. This award is something everyone wants to get, because it is an important catalyst for a person to move forward. Even if he gets it, he will have the possibility of being promoted immediately to be a leader. I calculated my performance in private, and felt that this advanced award was beyond me.

The last result was taken away by a colleague who had been waiting for me first and had a friendly atmosphere before people. If I had anything to say, I went straight to the leadership. The leader listened to me with a smile and said, "I have a message to tell you. Because of your work relationship, you are temporarily seconded to the branch office for a year." I stopped at once. This so-called loan is actually derogatory.

　　 I did not follow the instructions of the leaders to assist in the work of the branch; instead, I resigned directly to my home, and after three months of hard work, I went back to the original University through the postgraduate entrance examination. When I was transferred to the archives, I deliberately entered from the main entrance, so that every colleague could see himself more brilliant. I thought they would be very wary of congratulating me and looking at me with envy. However, only a few of my colleagues greeted me lightly and bowed their heads to busy their work.

　　 Suddenly, a strong loss, even the bright red letter of admission, can not offset the loss caused by this neglect.

Half a year later, I met the advanced colleague in the street. After a simple greeting, he said, Xiao Li, in addition to his studies in the past three years, he had to learn how to speak and act well. The workplace is not a campus, so simple; personality must have, and efforts must be made, but speaking with people is also extremely important.