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How To Avoid Office Arrow?

2010/10/25 11:22:00 44

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As the saying goes "

Ming gun

Easy to block, difficult to guard against.

In today's increasingly fierce competition in the workplace, the smell of gunpowder in the office also escalated.

If someone slandered you or fabricate rumors, it is a very depressing thing. In such a case, learning a set of self-defense techniques is very beneficial.

First of all, it is recommended that we first review ourselves calmly.

Recall carefully whether you had intentionally or unintentionally.

Hurt

The other side.

If there is, it is better to find an opportunity to sincerely apologize to colleagues, ask for forgiveness, reduce an enemy is also equivalent to more than a friend, to create a good interpersonal relationship for future work is certainly beneficial and harmless.

If you make sure that the other person is deliberate, then you should be based on the type of the injured person.

Choice

The way to deal with it is:

"You are stronger than him", this kind of gossiping colleagues can not be described as "villains". In fact, they inadvertently endorse you and prove your abilities. It is precisely because your work ability is very threatening that they arouse their awareness of self-protection.

His purpose is to protect you from the negative influence. So the way to deal with this kind of person is the simplest: you have to make his expectations fail and get the job done better.

When he realizes that rumors can hardly affect you, he will be in a dilemma.

The "attention giving" type of people often just want to attract the attention of others.

But you are innocent enough to be the object of discussion.

At this point, you need to stand up and fight back and let him know that you are not an object to be taken lightly. It is also a warning to others to choose you as the object of trouble.

The "inferiority" type of injury often conceals a sense of inferiority and believes that chatting about one's own affairs will certainly not arouse other people's interests.

At this time, if you can help him out of a friendly hand, you will most likely get a blessing in disguise and win a close friend.

The ancients said: the heart of a man can't be hurt.

Society is not a vacuum. It is full of all kinds of people. The office is only a small cell in the society. When we do not harm people, it is also very important to learn how to protect ourselves.