Good Communication With Colleagues And Language Arts

You can't communicate with your colleagues in your office, but can you speak? As the saying goes, "one sentence makes people jump, one saying makes people laugh", but the same goal, but the different expressions, the consequences are also very different. What matters should I pay attention to in the office?

First, do not follow others behind their backs, learn to make your own voice.

The boss appreciates those employees who have their own heads and minds. If you often just say what others say, then you can easily be ignored in the office, you will not be very high in the office. You have your own mind. No matter what your position in the company is, you should voice your own voice and be bold enough to express your thoughts.

Two, there is something to say in the office. Avoid talking to people as a debate contest.

Be friendly with people in your office, be polite in your speaking manner, and make yourself feel intimid. Even if you have a certain level, you can't talk with others in the tone of command. When speaking, you can't even point your finger at each other. This will make people feel impolite and make people feel insulted. Although sometimes people's opinions can not be unified, they have reservations. For those problems which are not very strong in principle, is there any need to fight for it? It is true that some people have good eloquence. If you want to use your own eloquence, you can use them in negotiations with customers. If you argue with others, you will keep your colleagues away. As time goes by, you will become an unwelcome person.

Three, don't show off yourself in public office, don't be proud peacock.

If your professional skills are excellent, if you are the red man in the office, if the boss boss appreciates you very much, can they become your flaunting capital? Pride makes people lag, modesty makes progress. If you have more abilities, you should be cautious in your career. If you have a more capable employee, you will become a laughing stock. If the boss gives you a bonus next day, you can't even flaunt it in the office. While others are congratulating you, you are also jealous of you.

Four, the office is a place of work, not a place for mutual complaints.

There are always some people around us. They are very fond of chatting and have a special temperament. They like to pour bitter water with others. Although such conversation can quickly draw the distance between people and make you very friendly and friendly, psychologists have found that only 1% of them can keep secrets. Therefore, when your life has personal crisis, such as lovelorn, marriage and so on, it is best not to talk to anyone in the office. When your job is in crisis, if your work is not smooth, you have no idea about your boss or colleagues. You should not show your mind in the office. Too straightforward and thirteen points, almost any mature white-collar workers will not be so "straightforward". If you have problems in your life or work, you should avoid talking in the workplace. Try to find a few close friends and find a good place to talk after work.

Speaking is divided into fields, people's heads must be measured, and propriety must be measured. The most important thing is to be decent. The attitude of being neither humble nor overbearing, graceful body language, lively and witty humorous language... These are all arts of language. Of course, it is more important to have self-confidence. The art of language understanding can help you to be more confident. Skilled use of these language arts, your career will be more successful!