It Is Better To Complain About Your Boss Than To Reflect On Yourself.

I read a little story in disorder.

The main idea of the story is as follows:

    有一個人極不滿意自己的工作。一次，他忿忿地對朋友說：“我的上司一點也不把我放在眼里，改日我要對他拍桌子，然后辭職不干！”“你對那家貿易公司完全弄清楚了嗎？對于他們做國際貿易的竅門完全搞通了嗎？”朋友反問道。“沒有！”“古人說‘君子報仇三年不晚’。我建議你還是好好地把他們的一切貿易技巧、商業文書和公司組織完全搞通，甚至連怎樣修理影印機的小故障都學會，然后辭職不干。”朋友說。那人覺得朋友的“建議”有道理——以公司做免費學習之所，什么東西都通了之后，再一走了之，為此不是既出了氣，又有許多收獲嗎？自此，他默記偷學，甚至下班之后，還留在辦公室里研習寫商業文書的方法。一晃一年過去。一天，那人和朋友又見面了。朋友問：“你現在大概把公司的一切都學會了，可以準備拍桌子不干了吧？”然而，那人卻紅著臉說：“可是我發現近半年來，老板對我刮目相看，最近更總是委以重任，又升官，又加薪，我已經成為公司的紅人了！”

This story is somewhat "O Henry style" meaning.

From the "information" revealed by the story, the man who was once very dissatisfied with his work had been able to dispel his boss's "clapping the table, and then quit the job", because he had no reason not to cherish the sight of the "beautiful village".

It is truly enviable that a person can quickly express himself in the face of adversity and lack of opportunity.

However, in my opinion, the most worthwhile thing is the "friend" in the story, especially the wise and well advised exhortation.

His words are full of wisdom and good intentions, because it not only points out a way of "self renovation" for the protagonists of the story, but also exhortations give people a common mistake which is easily dyed and easily overlooked, that is, when we are not able to occupy the "weight" in the minds of our superiors, we often only know a lot of dungeons and complain about the attitude of the superiors, but refuse to look at themselves calmly and objectively reflect on themselves.

What does "force" have?

In fact, it is one of the essential skills for a person to cultivate his virtue and to enhance himself's strength of living.

Because of this, the words "I have three provinces and my own body" have become the famous saying of the ages. Zhu Xicai, a Dali scholar in Song Dynasty, wrote the eight characters in the list of "White Deer hole academy", which is written by the great writer Han Yu in the Tang Dynasty.

No patient can be treated without any injustice. "

In people's habit of thinking, it seems that "injustice" between the boss and his subordinates seems to be on the contrary.

Whether it's up to down or down, "injustice" is something people don't want to see.

Therefore, from time to time, we should face up to ourselves, reflect on ourselves, or be a way to recognize our superiors fairly.